Losing "Monica"

"Let love and faithfulness never leave you;

   bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.  Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.

  Trust in the LORD with all your heart

   and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

Proverbs 3:3-6

I am one who likes control. Ok, I might even be a control-freak. If I were a "Friends" character, it would be Monica, even though I believe I'm a Rachel. Yes, I have issues. 

I find that when I can move out of that control mode, I am more at peace and more focused on what really matters. I trip myself up by thinking that I need to have my hands on something or be right there in the decision making process. God doesn't need my help. I need His!!